Being Bored

October 23, 2023  · 

Hi all,

I've been noticing a flaw in my thinking recently that I wanted to talk about today:

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I no longer have the ability to be bored.

Now, finally writing that statement out, it sounds pretty ridiculous. I mean, for most people, boredom is terrible, and apparently, a significant chunk of people would rather be stimulated by painful electric shocks than be bored.

But I feel like healthy boredom is integral to having a creative, productive mind.


Back in the day (like two years ago), my dad used to tell me to, let myself be bored, and as a kid, I never really knew what he was talking about. Like, of course, I knew how to be bored: I was always bored on those 14-hour flights to China (before I got my phone) or anytime we talked to family friends I didn't know.

But now, I kind of get what he means. It's not that I have no idea how to be bored it's just that I don't have healthy outlets for curing my boredom.

That's pretty alarming, especially at a time when it's easier than ever to distract yourself from boredom in unproductive ways.

I want to be able to tap into my boredom as a resource. Like Neil Gaiman says, "You get ideas from being bored." I want to be like him. So, to clarify for my brain and yours:

So, let's stop pivoting away from being bored so fast and stop being so quick to take out our phones or to look up chess.com on the internet. Let's commit ourselves to making the subjects we're learning or the tasks we're doing interesting to our brains.

But how do we force things to be interesting? I think the best way to do it is to make things complicated:

And finally, let's try to focus on doing more of what we want to do.

And hey, if it comes down to it, I might start staring at a wall for 15 minutes every day just to see what ideas my brain has got lurking there past my conscious mind.

(Pretty ridiculous, I know, but I was bored when thinking about it, so hey, it might mean something).

Anyways, that's what my brain spewed out today so, if you're still here, thanks for reading, and have a great week!

-Ethan


Things I'm Enjoying:

📚 Books - I've been finishing up How to Take Smart Notes by Sönke Ahrens for the past couple of weeks, and I think it's a really good read. I'm trying to change my whole notetaking/idea generation system to accommodate the slip box system. I'm not sure how well it'll work for science and math because they are less creative subjects, but I'm hoping to make some new, interesting connections between the subjects.

👨‍💻 Tech - This is kind of an expensive pick, but my university has a 3D printer, and it's amazing how many random products you can create that would cost $5-20 on Amazon. So, if you have the means, I'd pick one up ($300-500) for like a decent printer.

💻 Website - printables.com - Kind of along with the tech pick, printables is one of the best places to get professional to semi-professional 3D models to print. I also like it because it can give insight into how to design products for consumers, albeit on a smaller scale.

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